Wednesday's question came from Joanne in Aurora, Ill.
She wrote: "All intimacy stopped in my 30+ years marriage more than three years ago. My husband no longer desires to share any intimacy. It feels like I live with my brother or a roommate. Sure doesn't make me feel like a woman or wife. Is there hope for my marriage?"
Val, Ryan, Ji, and Roe Conn share their advice.
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