Pillow Talk: Is porn cheating?

CHICAGO -- Monday's question came from "Sarah" in Lynwood, Ill. She says, "I've been with my husband for 4 year now. Our sex life is pretty much downhill. So I did some snooping and his cell phone history is nothing but porn. He also is paying for a subscription for a porn site. Do I tell him I know about it because I feel like its cheating in a sense?"

Val, Ryan, Roe Conn and special guest Anna Davlantes gave some advice.

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