Pillow Talk: Text or no text?

Today's question comes from Kelly in South Holland. She writes: "I'm having a 4-year long distance relationship via text with my college boyfriend (ex). We graduated in 1985. What should I do? Stop texting and call it quits; or demand we meet in person? We haven't seen each other since college."

Val, Ryan, and Ji lend their advice.

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