Pillow Talk: Friends with the ex?

Monday's question came from Stef in Grayslake.

She wrote: "My fiance (now ex) cheated on me with a high school senior. He says he's in love with her, but wants to stay friends with me. I told him I'm willing to be his friend, but not if she's still in his life. He feels like this is an unacceptable request since we're 'just friends' now. I feel like he can't have us both. Am I wrong to make him choose one or the other?"

Val, Ji, guest host Terrell Brown and Roe Conn share their advice.

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