Pillow Talk: Restoring trust

Jodi from Yorkville wrote: "My husband was (caught) trying to meet people online to 'chat' about 5 years ago. Since then he let me put an app on his phone that allows me to see everything he does. There are times I feel comfortable and won't even check for months, but there are times where I am worried and do... He has done absolutely everything to try to win back my trust. He apologized for it so many times. He is a good guy, good dad, and I really do love him. We've been married for 23 years. How can I make myself trust him again?"

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