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Lisa from Chicago wrote: "I was married last year and had my close friend of 15 years in my bridal party. Now she's engaged. I found out about her engagement through Facebook and learned I was not in the wedding through an email she sent saying I am not the right body type. Her specific quote: 'I have friends that take pride in their appearance. Our wedding is beach-themed and I want all my girls to look fit and tan. The dresses I picked are strapless and only look good on slimmer bodies.' How do I decline her invitation? We have mutual friends that I don't think know about her email, and if I don't go I'm going to look like a jerk."
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