Pillow Talk: Kick him to the curb?

Mary from Ottawa, Ill., wrote: "I have been dating my boyfriend for two years now and have three kids with somebody else. My boyfriend is almost ten years older than me and now that's it's been two years with him, I want to settle down. But he keeps telling me he doesn't know what he wants and that if we ever get married, it's a lot of responsibility for him since I have three kids. What does it mean when a guy says they don't know what they want? Should I just kick him to the curb? I think so!"

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