Pillow Talk: Being the other woman

Pearla from Chicago wrote: "My now ex-husband cheated on me when we were separated. We are divorced now. He married the woman he cheated on me with. He and I are now sleeping together, not because I want him but because he is good in bed. Although he's getting his cake and eating it too, I feel vindicated by being the woman he is cheating on her with. I know I'm wrong, but it feels so good in more ways than one. Should I stop seeing him?"

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