Pillow Talk: It's Not Me!

Anonymous from Valparaiso wrote: "My ex fiancé/ boyfriend of 11 1/2 year who walked out on me and my children has a new steady (married) girlfriend. He's still sending me love notes. She's caught him cheating (as he always does) and thinks it's with me. I know, however, that it's with another married woman (whom he cheated on me with). Ugh! Do I respond to her Facebook message letting her know it's not me? Or do I let the poor woman struggle through the pain with him as I did?"

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