Pillow Talk: Bored After 13 Years

Erika from Chicago wrote in to ask, "I am 46 and my husband is 55. We've been married 13 years with 3 kids. He's currently unemployed. My issue: when we have sex it's only when he wants it... He gets his pleasure and I'm left with nothing. I want out of this marriage, but I don't know how. Does unemployed, boring sex qualify me for a divorce? Help! I Want Out!"

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