Mom: Daughter forced to wear 'shame suit' for dress code violation

JACKSONVILLE, Fla. -- A Jacksonville, Fla., mother is accusing her daughter's school of bullying.

She says administrators forced her teen to wear a "shame suit" after she violated the dress code, WJXT-TV reports.

Miranda Larkin, 15, was wearing a skirt on the third day of school when she says she got "coded." Her skirt, under Oakleaf High School standards, is supposed to be at her knee or longer. She says a teacher sent her to the nurse's office to change into a "shame suit" - oversized red sweatpants and a neon yellow shirt - both with the words - "dress code violation." Larkin said she was mortified.

"I couldn't stand the thought of people staring at me because I was wearing some insane outfit," she said.

Larkin broke out into hives and called her mom from the bathroom crying.

"I actually had to get her medication for the hives. She was completely devastated. I don't know a better word. She was completely humiliated and devastated and for a mom, that's awful," said mom Dianna Larkin.

A spokesman for the school district says dress code violators have three options: an immediate in-school suspension, put on the "violation" clothes and go back to class, or have parents drop off proper clothing - but he says that option isn't always presented to the students. Miranda Larkin says she was only told to put on the embarrassing clothes.

"I said my grandma is going to come get me, and she says, 'Well, if you're grandma comes and picks you up, we're going to have to suspend you. We're going to have to put you in two-day in-school suspension,'" Miranda Larkin said.

An attorney for the school district released a statement that in part reads: "...none of us see this as a FERPA violation as it is not a personally identifiable student record. Additionally, it is not displaying a discipline record to the public. If we put the kid on work detail, all students would know that he/she is being disciplined. If we put in (in-school suspension) same result. Saturday school, same result. Community service, same result..."

"I don't have a problem with punishing kids. If you don't like the rule, tough. You follow the rule. You have to get punished if you don't, but punishment shouldn't involve humiliation. It shouldn't, ever. You wouldn't do that to an adult, why would you do that to a kid?" said Dianna Larkin.

The school district spokesman says students and parents are reminded of the dress code in five different ways at the beginning of the school year, and the purpose of the punishment is for students to miss as little class as possible and create a distraction-free learning environment.

But Larkin's mom says this isn't the way to do it. She's seeking legal counsel and filing a complaint with the Federal Educational Rights and Privacy Act, and she encourages parents of other dress code violators to do the same.