Pillow Talk: In love with the ex

Monday's question came from Jessica in Riverdale.

She wrote: "I've been in a relationship for 10 years and had three kids by a man whom I loved, but he cheated on me. I left him in 2012. He started a relationship with the girl he cheated on me with, but I still love him. He still flirts and we have sex sometimes. Should I say something to his girlfriend or leave it alone?"

Val, Ji, Ryan and sex-advice columnist and author Dan Savage weighed in.

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