Pillow Talk: The snooper

CHICAGO -- Sandra from Streamwood wrote in and asked, "My boyfriend and I have been together over a year now and we don't argue often. Last week, I peeked into his messages and saw that he had been messaging with his ex and saying whenever we argue I always make everything his fault, etc. What should I do about this? PLEASE HELP!"

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