Pillow Talk: Splitting the holidays

Monday's question came from John in Tinley Park. He writes: "I have been dating my girlfriend for a while now and I am having trouble with the holidays coming up. How do we figure out whose family we should spend the holidays with? We usually always spend it with hers, but how do I split the holidays with both of our families?"

Val, Ji, Ryan and Roe Conn give their advice

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